Unfinished Business

Unfinished business, these words can mean many things for people and make the wheels turn for a few as well. Unfinished business can cause a lot of things and can be the result of things not quite happening how we pictured it to happen. Unfinished business means “something that a person needs to deal with or work on, something that has not yet been done, dealt with, or completed”.

This can come in different forms in our life’s relationships, friends, school, family, kids. Etc. this shows in every avenue of our lives. Unfinished business can be a barrier in our lives stopping us from achieving what we need to do to move forward. This barrier can be a behavior preventing us from getting somewhere or a habit needing some adjustment. Barriers are unfinished business because this is standing in the middle of you completing your next goal.

Embarrassment is a HUGE part of unfinished business. This can be caused by a relationship not going how you wanted it to go or, someone saying or doing something that didn’t quite hit you the right way. Embarrassment is something we all come to face at some point in our lives, the question is how we overcome it and move forward with the unfinished business left behind because of this. Embarrassment can show up in family, relationships, family. Etc. it is a natural emotion we all must learn to overcome overtime. Learning to finish out what you started can help with that.

Childhood trauma when a memory is unfinished a person is unable to allow the memory to fade into the background meaning, It is a lot harder to suppress emotions or past things that affect us and this is why we have to learn to take care of unfinished business before moving onto something else.

How we react is a response from previous things that could have taken place in out adulthood that makes it hard us to move on from certain things. We react because we don’t know how to respond properly. Some may take that statement personal but I reality it is not you who is causing this, it’s the unfinished business lingering below.

Take some time to make a list from the past year that you feel are some areas you would like to finish some unfinished business in. Maybe home renovation, better morning habits, your communication skills, it can be anything you want to tie that loose end on.

I would love to hear or read some of your list. Reach out on my Instagram @Koreankams and I would love to connect with you guys there😊

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